Wednesday, 1 December 2010
There isn't much that is more painful that thinking that your spouse is cheating on you, and if you are thinking that it is happening to you then I'm sure that one thing that you really want to do is to make sure that you are either right or wrong.Either way you will be given some form of relief from your worry. I'm sure that you hope that you are wrong and that your marriage is still intact and secure, but that lingering doubt is enough to make you check to make sure.
Here are the top 3 ways that most people catch a cheating spouse.
Most people that are guilty of cheating use the excuse that they are working late. This happens so many times, and it is an easy excuse to use, but it is also something that is easy to follow up on. If your spouse starts working longer hours then why not check up on them. Of course you would want to make sure that they don't know that you are watching them but it's an easy way to make sure that they are really working late.
Another way that many people get caught cheating is by their cell phones. Sometimes they call their lovers and forget to erase their cell phone call history. Check the latest calls, both incoming and outgoing. You can also see if you can look up their cell phone account online and see a list of recent phone calls.
Another way that really doesn't fall in the catching your spouse cheating but can help to build suspicion is to look for variations in their lifestyle. Are they suddenly going to the gym and dieting? Do they change their habits suddenly? It could be that their lover is asking them to change things about themselves and that it is carrying over into their life with you.
Catching your cheating spouse can bring some closure to a stressful situation. By looking for the tell tale signs and making sure that you know exactly what to look for you can build a case for yourself when it comes time to confront them.